Have you ever played a card game with 5-year olds? Before you start, they explain the game in vague details and provide a list of rules that are customized to their needs. Then you begin playing, doing your best to remember the rules and keep the game moving and fun for everyone. STOP!
The game is no longer fun. The 5-year has just realized that one of their rules is not beneficial to them. Because they are a kid and generally pretty darned cute, you allow the change of how the rules apply to them without comment (yet you must continue following their original rules). It doesn’t take long for Continue reading